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How amazing would it be if you could just start talking to any woman you saw? I believe that most guys would agree that this skill would surely lead to amazing adventures and stories.

It’s actually not that hard to learn how to talk to women and in this guide I’ll show you exactly how to do it so the next time you see an attractive woman, you’re running up to her to say hi.”

The first concept to starting a conversation is that you must first detach yourself from the outcome. If you’re walking up to a woman worried about what she’ll say, what she’ll do or if she’ll like you or not, then you’re almost guaranteed to fail before you even start.

That’s because the more you think about how to start a conversation with a girl, the more you tend to over-analyse the situation. More often than not, this ends up in a man simply walking away from the woman, without even introducing himself to her. Don’t be that guy!

Instead, when you approach a girl, think of it as an experiment where you’re going to discover if you like the girl or not. Usually it’s you that won’t like the girl so you can’t really be scare of her not liking you in the first place. If anything, when you start a conversation for the first time with a woman, just try to have fun with it and whatever happens… happens.

The second element to starting conversations is to have a pre-made opener for when your mind goes completely blank. I know that many guys usually have their minds go completely blank when a beautiful woman crosses their path. That’s why you need to have something to say before you go out instead of trying to think of it on the spot.

What’s a good conversation starter? Well you can always use “Hi” but that’s difficult for a lot of guys. Instead, you could ask for an opinion on something, or even comment on a situation you’re both in. For instance, if you were at the supermarket, you could mention that you need an opinion on what to make for supper that night… Chicken or Tacos?

As long as you say something, then you’re good. After that, you’ll want to have something interesting to say to keep the woman’s attention. This is commonly known as a routine!

Routines are simple annecdotes about you that let the woman know a little more about you without saying it directly. So if you would want her to know that you travel a lot, you could discuss you recent trip to warm land of Sahara Desert.

1. Start with a fun opener
2. Carry on with stories that you memorized

Lastly, a little trick that guys should use is a false time constraint.Whenever you begin a conversation, you should mention that you can only talk for a few moments and then you need to get back to your day. This false time constraint helps relieve some of the pressure of having a stranger talking to you and increases your chances of success tremendously

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