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Understand attraction: What makes a man tick must first be established before you will be able to pinpoint what attracts him to a woman. Take time and do a little snooping and research on things that interest the man you have in your sight. Approach the man subtly. Do not come across as being intimidating and forceful. He will feel suffocated even before any affair or relationship is initiated. This feeling will make the man run so fast not even leaving his shoes behind. The utmost discretion must be exercised during the courting phase to identify the ways to attract men to you.

No Spark, no future: Without chemistry, passion will lack and anything that lacks passion is a total waste of time. Sparks cannot be created or imitated, it is either there or not. Don’t let your heart rule over your head. If your head tells you the other party does not feel same way or there is no possibility of a future with this person, listen. It will save you lots of heart ache, so rather steer clear or end the relationship during it’s initial phases than to find out later than he was never really attracted to you. Attraction is the best basis to build a lasting and strong relationship on.

Confidence shows : Men love confident woman. Confidence shows even before a person utters a single word. Tell him what you want and where you are going during your conversations. This will give him insight into your goals and ambitions. He will imminently know he is not dealing with an air head and the attraction will increase. Independence with a hint of naivety most probably tops the charts in terms of ways to attract a man. Don’t be over confidant. This is usually a method of covering up an inferiority complex. Woman with inflated ego’s and unrealistic goals are super turn off’s.

Want him to want you: Men are instantly attracted to attractive, well groomed and dressed woman. Just being seen with her strokes his ego and makes him swell with pride.  

No-no clothing: Get rid of all those comfortable sweat pants and grease stained t-shirts. Take yourself shopping for a few sexy silk, velvet or lace numbers. A little black dress will always get the thumbs up. Remember what you put in, you are going to get out.

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