Posted by admin | Posted in Uncategorized | Posted on 24-08-2009
If you're new here, you may want to subscribe to my RSS feed. Thanks for visiting!
Are you burnt out with spending your Saturday nights in front of the TV wolfing down a large pizza by yourself? How many beautiful girls did you look at this week and say to yourself: “Man, I wonder what I would need to do to have someone like her.” That can be really frustrating, especially to think that you know those girls are out with someone on Saturday night as you are making the ‘extra cheese and pepperoni no anchovies please’ call. So why wouldn’t you like to be hanging out with your girl instead? Well, in case that is your goal you may want to read these seven tips.
Ok, here is the first of the seven tips to finding a girlfriend: begin speaking to every stranger that you see. This means hot women, not so hot women, elderly women, even the fat dude with the ‘extra cheese and pepperoni no anchovies please’ face that looks like it hasn’t met a bar of soap for a month of Sundays. Why? Well, because if you simply speak to the pretty women and ignore everyone else you better believe that the ‘all or nothing ’ mindset and the rusty people skills are going to make you a monosyllabic caveman by the time she shows up. The secret to being able to win with pretty women is an attractive personality and if you are ignoring everyone but them you can be assured that your social skills won’t be up to par once comes around.
The second thing which you want to do is change your routines of everyday life. You have probably noticed all of the single ladies you are going to see in your current routine. Of course, you can sit and wait for hot women to show up but if you want to up the odds you must be the one to step out of the boat. Go to a place you normally would not go or even take a different route home from work and stop somewhere along the way. Whatever will mix up the routine and increase your options. You will most likely be surprised at what you have been missing.
Third, keep your confidence under your supervision by not sweating what she feels about you. If a girl does not like you then you can change your plans find the girl who does. Don’t get bent out of shape. The only person who you have to live with twenty four seven is you so you may as well be the one who calls the shots when it comes to your sense of self-worth. If she sees that you possess this level of confidence you can be certain that she is going to find your sexier.
Fourth, get good at rocking the boat a little and going after what you desire. Don’t stand there and say: “Wow, she’s really beautiful. I wonder if she might be interested in to me.” The first sentence is fine, but the second one is a real chink in any man’s armor. If you want this lady, simply go after her. Believe me, you will figure it out much quicker this way than you ever will in doing a lot of ‘I wonder what that look meant’ questioning.
Fifth, get an approach under your belt so that if you get stumped when you approach her. Make certain that you can say it in any situation and it will be your lifeline. A good thing to remember here is to avoid he being ‘normal’: “Come here often? What’s your name? How are you doing, my name is..” You understand. Certainly, there are still guys using those and you can bet that these ladies know how to defuse them rapidly. Think of something which is non-threatening and leaves her the opportunity to wonder about your intentions.
Sixth is quite trying to impress her. A lady will be more impressed by you not caring if you care to impress her than if you are pushing yourself to make you laugh or say ‘Wow’. The hotter the woman is, the more accustomed she will be to whatever you have tried. So unless you can make it rain on command, keep this laid back and don’t let yourself care about whether or not she cares for you. You can bet that you will make a lot more to happen like that and save yourself a lot of heartache as you do.
And at last, seventh is to request the date after the first meeting. Of course, you may not know if she is going to agree or even if she is going to tell you she is not interested. Don’t worry, you should always take two cars to the first date and totally book if things go ill. On the other hand, if you mull around and wait for her to send you a written invitation you are bound to get thrown into the friend file just for the sake of putting you out of your torment of indecisiveness. If she turns you down right away, better to get the story now rather than after three weeks of trying to figure it out.
So start working on these at once on all of these and work at them until they become a habit. These will ensure you that you will get better results when it comes to ladies.
The Cheapest, Fastest Way to Jumpstart Your Success With Women!
