Posted by admin | Posted in Uncategorized | Posted on 27-08-2009
Ok guys, do you sometimes get the feeling that you just can’t hit it off when it comes to communicating with women? Are you a complete ’open mouth insert foot’ and ending up at a loss in your romantic life because you keep turning women off when you speak to them? Then you see other men who don’t seem to be any smarter than you or better looking and girls just seem to be totally into them. How does that work? Well, if you are prepared to learn what you want to know about talking to women then here are ten ways to become a master:
To start with you gotta forget about trying to impress her. Women aren’t interested in you trying to make up their mind for them in regards to what they should think about you. If you honestly want to be able to communicate with a woman you better be yourself and let her decide how she feels about you.
The second thing you gotta master is keeping your compliments about how hot she is to yourself. Believe me, if she’s hot, she knows she is. She’s had guys saying that to her for as long as she can remember, so what’s the bigger if you tell her what she is probably tired of hearing? If you must tell her something nice, find something about her personality or something she is wearing.
How to Meet at Least One New Attractive Woman..Each and Every Week… For the Rest of Your Life!
The third thing is that you can’t be afraid to enter her space. This means that you touch her lightly on the arm when you are communicating or at least touch one of her items like her purse or her cell phone. You see, girls have this kind of sixth sense and they can tell if you are uncomfortable. Then they become uncomfortable and when that happens they simply make up their mind that they don’t like feeling like that and they book.
The fourth thing you need to understand is boundaries. If you sense that a women is ready to end the conversation and you turn into that desperate man who attempts to retain her attention she is going to tune you right out. Think about it, she could be busy or maybe she is just a little uncomfortable because she is actually attracted to you. Either way, if you act desperate she is going to split.
How to Meet at Least One New Attractive Woman..Each and Every Week… For the Rest of Your Life!
The fifth thing to master is the art of disqualification. In other words, you point out something about her that is unappealing or even unattractive. Just do it in a respectful manner and don’t be mean or degrading. This will suggest to her that she has to convince you otherwise and before too long she will be all over you in an attempt to win your approval.
Sixth, you must learn to create sexual tension. Now this is something which puts the poor old nice guys in the friends category when it comes to dating. You see, physical attraction between a man and a woman requires some dissonance for it to be effective. Which means that you disagree with her and even challenge her in a teasing sort of way.
The seventh thing is comfort building. The issue is that most men attempt to accomplish this by bending to her every whim and being a nice boy. Sorry, that is going to make her feel really uneasy. Why? Because a girl feeling comfortable is all about her being comfortable with your capacity to protect her, being soft just doesn’t get the job done when it comes to that.
That brings us to the eighth principle and that is being the bad boy in place of the soft hopeless romantic. You see, a woman is not attracted to the nice guy because she is scared that he won’t have the ability to make her feel safe. Being the rough around the edges bad boy is going to make her feel comfortable around you and because she feels secure she is going to become more comfortable.
Number nine, take initiative. Women are a lot better at being easy on men for moving too fast or offending them than they are to forgive a guy who is slow or unsure of himself. If you wait around to see what she thinks of you before you take action, don’t be surprised when she ends up being swept off her feet by a man who goes after what he wants.
How to Meet at Least One New Attractive Woman..Each and Every Week… For the Rest of Your Life!
Finally, pursue the woman who is a bit ’out of reach’ and who may not seem that she even desires a guy in her life. A lot of men are simply afraid of an independent woman. This only means that there is not as much competition so if you are the guy who takes a chance to pursue the seemingly out of reach girl you are probably the guy who is going to get to have her.
So make sure to follow each one of these strategies and don’t falter unless you want to wind up hanging out at the arcade with the other nice boys on Saturday nights. Good Luck!
