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Before you even think of making an approach next time you go out looking for women, you need to make some changes to yourself before you can learn how to get women. There are various problems that keep us from making approaching the first place and these problems often extend to getting rejected if, for some reason, we do finally bite the bullet and make the approach.
One of the most important things is to maintain an aura of self confidence even if you are not particularly self confidence at all. Woman like self confidence men in general and coming across as nervous and pathetic is certainly not going to be a big turn on.
To be able to hold a woman’s attention, you need to have a genuine desire for her. If she thinks that she is just some backup plan because you are afraid to go for the real thing then not only can this lead to rejection, it can also be extremely hurtful.
You don’t actually have to be particularly self confident to be able to learn how to get women. You just need to look self confidence and look like you are in control of the situation.
The ability to stand out amongst the crowd is also important if you want to get your attention. This doesn’t mean that you need to be a complete idiot to attract the attention, but it means that you need to appear as though you are popular and full of life and personality. If you can make a girl laugh for example, then you have a good chance of success.
Before you actually make your approach, you need to keep your close attention to factors such as body language and eye contact. If the girl in question is facing away from you, it probably means that she’s not interested but, on the other hand if she keeps looking round and appears slightly nervous, then she probably does have the hots for you.
Everyone should realise the importance of eye contact. Issues avoiding eye contact with you in such a way that she looks uninterested, then it is almost certainly not worth proceeding. However, if she is avoiding eye contact with you whenever you look at her and she is fiddling with her hair or something similar, then it is probably because she’s blushing. If this is the case, then you probably have a good chance because she is kind of flirting with you.
Once you’ve got into a platonic conversation with her, you can then start flirting. Flirting discreetly will help to keep up the level of anticipation which will drive most women crazy. Women love a level of anticipation so make sure you keep this up with an aura of mystery and by not getting too close in the initial stages.
