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When dealing with men and relationships, we have to account for the fact that generalizing too much can mislead us in understanding what they want in a woman and what they find irresistible. But there are quite a few common tendencies that can absolutely give you clues for understanding the secrets of how to be more attractive to men.

Some of the inquiries that women have had for as long as we know, include: What are the reasons behind men having such hard time commiting? Why won’t they express, or why do they hide their emotions? What are the keys to unlock a man’s head (and heart!)? How to attract a man?

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As complex as some of these issues are, I’ll provide you a with a simple set of clues to explore the most popular one: How to be irresistible to the opposite sex.

• Against general wisdom, the first thing I suggest is that you show interest in him!

Too many women play the game of pretending they’re not interested. This is old fashioned and it confuses men more than anything else. Demonstrating interest (at least initially), shows that you are not into playing games: it shows confidence and maturity. But as important as this is, it’s also important that you do it delicately: you can pay him a compliment, or look at him in the eyes while he talks.

• Once you’ve done this, practice my second tip: be slightly mysterious. Don’t play all your cards. Just like when you dress sexily, you don’t want to show too much—you want to leave something to the imagination.

Mirabelle Summers, author of the “Get a Guy Guide” (reviewed here), insists that you don’t have to pretend to be someone you’re not to attract men; in fact, quite the contrary.

My next piece of advice is something we do unconscioulsy, but it’s worth paying attention to:

• Let your body speak for you at every opportunity. Body language includes using your smile, your hair, the movement of your hands…

And again, our suggestion of being subtle applies here as well, so make sure to not overdo it.

A lot of women (men too) date as if they needed to fill an emotional gap in their lives. More times than not, this will inform their actions with fear and desperation. Therefore,

• Don’t be needy or clingy. Nothing is more of a turn-off than desperation.

This is common sense, but not everyone follows it. Insistence produces resistance.

And the king (rather, queen) of all tips:

• Act confidently. To learn how to be attractive to the opposite gender, you first have to learn how to be irresistible to yourself.

For downloadable resources that will rejuvenate your confidence, take a look at: Techniques to Improve Relationships.

Don’t wait to be liked in order to like yourself. It usually works better the other way around. At the beginning of any relationship with a man, act as if you’re already complete. You can hope for a man to enrich your life, but start by cultivating the feeling that your life is already rich to start with. This attitude of self-reliance will position you best to understand men and relationships, and to learn to become more attractive to them.

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