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Are you worried about your new partner and whether they are committed to you? Do you wonder how a rebound relationship can work particularly if there are unresolved feelings left from the previous affair?
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Often rebound relationships can be a band aid solution for the pain and hurt inflicted by the previous lover. If the person getting involved in the new relationship was the one to end the old one, I would be less worried. Usually people have been thinking of ending a relationship for ages before the event actually happens. By the time they get to finish it, they may have worked through their feelings and be ready to move on.
If he or she was the one broken up with, then you can know a lot about this person based just on this fact. For example, this person does not like being alone and will be with anyone as long as it means having some companionship. Unfortunately, that ‘anyone’ right now is you. As soon as the sadness from the previous relationship wears off, you might find that he or she has lost interest in you and will move on to the next person.
It is worth noting that often someone on the rebound often isn’t even aware of what they are doing. They are hurting emotionally and mentally and can crave comfort from another human being. This can mean that they end up in a relationship for the sake of having somebody to hold rather than to be with that person. Their new partner can get very hurt as the realization sets in that they aren’t loved for their individuality as much as the fact they can provide a quick fix solution to a painful situation.
If you plan on dating someone who just finished a relationship with someone else, you need to exercise extreme caution. First, do not have high expectations. This will only cause you to be impatient and disappointed. Furthermore, it will cause you to put too much pressure on the person because you will want them to move on faster than he or she may be ready for. Give them the time needed.
Nobody can just turn off their emotions like a switch. There is a transition process that must be allowed to occur. Remember, he or she has just left someone they love, together with all the hopes and dreams they had with that person. He or she will need some time to sort out their emotions.
Are you now dating someone who is on the rebound? Be a friend to them. Help them to work out their pain for his or her own sake, not so you can just start a relationship with him or her. That would be extremely selfish. Try to keep you hopes and desires in check so as not to put too much pressure on him or her. If you are patient, selfless and kind, you may find yourself rewarded with a beautiful romantic relationship. At worst, you will come away with a close friend who will never forget what you helped him or her get through.
