Posted by admin | Posted in Uncategorized | Posted on 26-10-2009
Have you recently broke up and you’ve reached the conclusion you can’t live without her? If you need to know how to win her back then look no further than psychological mind games to help you on your way. A few people may frown on the use of tactics like these, but who cares what they think. The important thing is to win her back.
Most people are blind to it but we are manipulated almost every day by psychological tactics. The whole world is at it in some form or other, two big culprits are governments and the advertising industry. Take the employee of the month competition. You don’t win anything other than bragging right but the overall production goes up.
Get her to call you without asking
Most of us like to receive letters through the post, as long as they aren’t demands for payment that is! So you write her a nice handwritten note and tell her you want to thank her. And tell her that things are good for you right now.
By doing this you raise 2 things in her. Curiosity & pride. She’s curious as to why you want to thank her, and then pride kicks in because you’ve thanked her. We all love being thanked. She will be curious enough to call you. She needs to know why you would thank her. Of course the reason you say is that the split has down you the world of good.
Of course the real reason for the letter was to get her to call you. If you play this one right you can eventually have her believe she made first contact with you again. After all, you never once asked her to call you in the letter. But the letter did its job and she called anyway.
Later I can show you how to get yourself the exact letter to send. There are a few other good tricks like this as well.
Use her favourite memories
By this I mean everyone has memories that are treasured, and these can be used for your advantage. Favourite songs, foods, smells. They all work as good as each other.
If she ever comes to your place or calls you (after receiving the letter!). You have the song on in the background just loud enough for her subconscious mind to hear it. Her subconscious then starts to link her favourite song with you, as those are the most recent memories of her hearing the song. Her subconscious will transfer some of her love for the song back to you.
Jealous curiosity
If you can arrange a night out with a few friends, be seen to be having fun. Also make sure that your ex finds out just what a good time you had.
As long as you aren’t dating another girl, she would be livid at this, you can make your ex just a little bit jealous at missing out on the fun. She will expect you to be still mourning her but here she finds you out & about enjoying yourself. She may well feel she wants to be part of the fun again like it used to be.
Those are just a few of the many psychological mind games you can use to win her back. Yes a few people will look down their nose at using them but they are harmless and no serious damage will be done. But you can’t just jump in and use these tactics without an overall plan.
You want to be putting these tips in as part of a bigger plan to win her back. Without a decent system to follow chances are you will just screw the whole job up.
Have a look at what I think are the best couple systems to help you to win her back at my website…
