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Have you ever experienced that feeling during a date where you just know you need to make a move on the girl you are out with, but you didn’t know how to kiss her in the right way or were nervous of blowing it?

It is something that a lot of men will deal with at some point.  Personally, I used to be pretty good at getting dates, but I would blow it again and again because I didn’t know how to kiss a woman.

Firstly, if you can get a girl to see you and you have an inkling that she might even be attracted to you, then you are a lot farther along than a good deal of guys.  You simply need to know how to kiss a girl.

The real issue is in your mind. Your mind is most likely racing “What if she just wants to be friends? How should I deal with that?”.

All of this is just a waste of your energy.

There are no proven methods to know if a girl is in to you.

What you should do instead is find out quickly if she is deserving of your time or not.

So you need to kiss her at a good moment like at the end of a date. After you get some experience with this you will just know that it is time to kiss. Everything will seem heavy and you will know it is time.

When you go in to kiss her, one of two things will follow.

First, the two of you will kiss and all kinds of fun activities will ensure.

Or second, she shoots you down. If this happens, you should be grateful!  You just discovered that you do not need to spend any more time with this woman and can put your time to better use on other girls.

Simply say something relaxed such as, “Hey you can’t blame a guy for trying. ” or “Hey, just take it as a compliment.”  End the date at your first chance. Treat her like a friend and don’t let the situation become weird.

From there, everything is in her hands. If she comes to the conclusion she made a mistake, it is up to her to call you. But let her initiate the first move. You will be spending your time dating women that are interested in getting intimate with you.

Let me share a personal example of how to kiss a girl.

Last summer, I had a date with a woman I really wanted to see. Occasionally, you meet a girl that just pushes all your buttons in just the right ways. This woman was a perfect example of one of those.

I was just passing through town, so I took her out to lunch at my favorite restaurant. I drove her back to her condo and she invited me up to show me some paintings. We chatted and lounged on her sofa.

Then everything became quiet.

The moment was just right to make my move. I didn’t know what would happen, but I took a leap of faith anyway. I let the awkward moment hang for bit, then I said, “I really wan to kiss you. “  Then I leaned over and kissed her.

At first there was some hesitation, but she quickly decided to enjoy the moment. Don’t shy away if you get some intial resistance. If she doesn’t feel like making out, she’ll make it clear. But anticipate a little initial resistance at first.

Also, take the lead with the kissing. Most girls will try to kiss in their own way initially. Be firm and she will eventually let go and follow you.

Afterward I took a step back and said “I’ve wanted to do that for a really long time. “  She seemed to enjoy that and I proceeded to have a fun weekend with her.

So that is my advice on how to kiss a woman. It might be frightening to lay all your cards out on the table like that, but that’s what makes it so much fun.

If you liked this article, please also check out Guide to Kissing Girls, Flirting with Women, and How to Turn a Girl On

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