Posted by admin | Posted in Uncategorized | Posted on 03-02-2010
Most men that write to me want to learn how to become an alpha male. You know that guy. The man that commands attention everywhere he goes. The man who always takes charge of a situation. The guy that catches the eye of every girl he runs across.
Some guys will put too much effort into out-doing other guys to show that they have “social status. “ They take every minor success as a chance to brag about their pathetic life.
These guys are being stupid and you don’t want to copy them.
These men are definitely not alpha males. They show this by how much effort the put into showing how cool they are|.
The real alpha guys are rock-solid and have nothing to prove. They just do what they do without caring about what others think. They adhere to their own beliefs and don’t put much stock in whether others think of them as “alpha. “
To become an alpha male, stop trying to impress other people and just do your own thing. Give up trying to prove to everyone that you are an alpha male. Real alpha males don’t need to prove themselves to anybody because they’ve already learned to accept themselves.
Now for the info you can actually apply.
Start taking initiative in your daily decisions. Stop waiting for others to make their mind on where to go for dinner, just pick something. It does not even matter if you care that much about the outcome. Just pick something–anything.Most people hate making decisions and look to someone else to do it. Plus you can skip those ten minute “I don’t know, what do you want?” conversations. Taking command of a situation is simple, and most people will just simply fall in line behind you.
Start thinking about what your passions in life are. What do you stand for? What is your life about? Build a strong set of values. Don’t be scared to stand up for yourself when you have to back up those values. However, you should not go out of your way to get into a fight or start an argument. It is often possible to solve disagreements with a civilized conversation, but don’t be afraid to fight if someone is plain rude and refuses to apologize. Once you get this, you will automatically become confident and do all that “alpha male” stuff everyone else is recommending. After you know what you stand for, you will never find yourself feeling insecure again.
So quit trying so hard to be “alpha. Simply cultivate your own values and you’ll naturally become less neurotic and more calm. Real alpha males are not concerned with appearances and you should not be either.
If you liked this article, please check out Becoming an Alpha Male, How to Impress Women, and What Women Think Is Attractive.
