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Are you ready to jump into online dating? The internet has revolutionized meeting women for shy, lazy or unattractive men. Does this happen to you – you walk into your local bar and get turned down flat by all of the beautiful women? Well, modern technology has leveled the playing field. These days you can chat to a beautiful girl online while she takes the time to get to know the real you.
So what is the best way to meet a beautiful woman over the internet? The key to success is knowing how to flirt. The internet may have improved your chances of finding a girlfriend, but you still need to know how to interact with other [human beings.
If you spend more time in front of a computer than people, then this may be a new concept for you. Flirting is a basic human interaction that shows a person that you are interested in them. Face to face, people flirt with body language. Online, we flirt with what we write.
So why is flirting a great way to help you meet beautiful women online? Well, think about what happens when you first see a stunning girl in a nightclub.
Let’s assume you are not just gazing lustfully at her across the bar and have actually gone up introduce yourself. You think of a great opening line … and freeze up. Instead of saying hi, you are now dribbling down your shirt. If this happens regularly to you, then flirting online means you can hide behind a keyboard and not feel so self-conscious. You can take your time and think about what to say.
Flirting will also help you create sexual tension. Without it she is going to think you are that nice friend she chats online to about all her problems. And she will probably think you are gay. If she thinks you are gay or a “friend”, then your chances of having sex just went to hell. You are going to need sexual tension to take this relationship to the next level. A relationship might be built on love and attraction, but without pure lust it’s not getting out of the starting blocks.
Ok, so how does a dating noob learn how to flirt?. Well, read on:
- Confidence – In a bar you are competing against better looking men. Not online! Grab her attention by being confident. Women love confidence in a man – just don’t get too cocky.
- Make Her Laugh – A close second behind confidence is humor. Make her feel great and she will keep coming back for more.
- Tease Her A Little – This one takes a bit of practice but is a killer technique. Tease her a little after you can get her to laugh. If you are nice to her, then she will think you are a nice “friend”. Tease her to create sexual tension.
- Ask Questions – Keep your responses simple and ask questions . Be interested in what she has to say.
- Complement Her – Be sincere but don’t be a phoney.
- Be Brief – Don’t turn a chat session into a autobiography. Be brief to create mystery.
So who do you flirt with? The internet has opened up your options to almost every continent on the planet. Why not flirt with a bonnie lass from Ireland? Or how about a hot Russian woman from Moscow? And don’t forget about those tanned Aussie women down under. The world is your dating oyster.
