How Do I Mentally Prepare Myself For My Ex Of 4 Years To Start Dating Someone New?

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Posted by admin | Posted in Q & A | Posted on 08-02-2010

We just broke up 3 weeks ago. I dont think hes planning on dating anyone else. I think we’re still trying to work on things or at least being just friends. but just in case, how do i prepare myself in case he does start seeing someone new? I know my heart will just drop once that happens

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Its inevitable that you will both start dating new people at some point.
From experience, I can say that yes, your heart will drop and you will probably go through some of the same feelings you did when you broke up.
It’s great if you and your ex plan on being friends, but sometimes it can be too hard at first. You need to make sure you give yourself plenty of time to have gotten over him.
Keep yourself busy, do things with your friends, go for long walks to keep your head clear. Try and focus on looking after yourself.
As I have gotten older, I have realised all my past relationships have taught me great lessons and I don’t regret any of them.
One day you will be ready to put yourself back out there and him dating new people won’t mean much at all. Just give yourself time :)
Good Luck.

Well if you want to get back with him.
you shud work on it.
think about why it ended.
the reasons.
fix those reasons and work on your self (improve/maintain looks or build mind power and feel confident)
then he will probably notice the changes.
dont make it obvious
but always seem happy around him.
and then he shall talk to you. if he doesnt you do it first. talk about the past.
If its a no no. Then dont worry there are alot of guys our there.
You shud look for somone who u can marry or have a gud future with.
if this didnt happen then it wasnt ment to be.
luv is out there
do what u believe.
henny

It takes time but hang in there. Things will get better as time passes by, dude just take it one day at a time.

You shouldn’t worry about it. It seem like ur a caring person, You’ll find someone.

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