Posted by admin | Posted in Q & A | Posted on 17-01-2010
I believe that online dating websites are for people who desperate and people who need lives. Agree or Disagree!
Posted by admin | Posted in Q & A | Posted on 06-01-2010
I have started an online dating site for English men to meet South African women and I would li8ke to know anything that people feel they want from a dating site, all ideas and past experiences , good and bad welcome, have a look first if you like www.iwantawife.co.uk.
Posted by admin | Posted in Q & A | Posted on 03-01-2010
I am wondering if the real world dating strategies work online. I mean, should a girl make the first contact or should she just sit around and wait till a guys does? If I should then how should I do it (what should I say?) so it doesn’t seem too forward? I don’t want to push it and be a turn off to the guys.
Posted by admin | Posted in Uncategorized | Posted on 24-12-2009
Everyone is looking for love. No one likes being the only single at a table full of couples, and no one wants to send themselves valentine chocolate just so they won’t be the only ones not getting anything. Some people believe in that fairytale happily ever after ending, while others… Don’t. For those stuck in the middle and willing to catch love when it comes their way, there are dozens of different avenues to look into.
And then you have your cynics who’d rather eat a scented candle than light one and who believe those who wear matching outfits should be drawn and quartered. Everyone else, though not as extreme, still have their own views on romance and are more than willing to experiment with different avenues. They don’t lean to strongly either one way or the other, and while they may not be cast in the next remake of Romeo and Juliet, they still get lonely for companionship.
Though unreliable there’s no denying that the dating scene is wide and varied. However some don’t have the time for it, especially with children, work, and an avalanche of other responsibilities.
Those of the GLBT community have an even harder time of it. If your prospects haven’t admitted which side of the fence their on, then they’re so far gone into the stereotype of the culture that they’ve made themselves unattractive. So what to do? How to find one that isn’t one extreme or the next? You can embark on an endless search much like the rest of the population but there’s so much trial and error involved that it’s almost not worth it. The Heteros complain about how hard finding true love is.
Their prospects are either still hidden in the closet behind the winter coats, or have come so far out of it that they embody the term, ‘flamingly gay’. The belief that the good ones are all taken or gay is only half true. If it wasn’t, then there’d be no single gay men or lesbians left. What it tells us is that it’s just as hard for straight people to find a partner as it is for a gay one.
Gay online dating websites can help you do just that. You’re safe and anonymous in the privacy of your own home. The relationship never progresses until you’re ready for it to. Best of all you get to know a person’s mind first before you’re distracted by the trappings of their body. In many cases opposites attract is one of the truest forms of love.
With gay online dating it takes away a casing that may have originally turned you away and shows you that in this person is what you’ve been searching for all along. So have faith in your touchy-feely-lovey dovey emotions. As in real life, cyber relationships take as much effort and courage as real life ones. Be willing to try new things with new people, just in a safe, smart way. Just remember to always be careful and follow your heart and hopefully in the end you’ll be rewarded for your faith in mankind.
Posted by admin | Posted in Q & A | Posted on 25-09-2009
I’ve read Are U 4 Real by Sara Kadefors and Exposed by Susan Vaught and I really liked both of them. What are some other novels about the whole online dating thing?
