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You are dating a beautiful but a shy girl or one
that is not a talkie. You have already talked
about your hobbies, your families and your jobs
and nothing else come into your mind and she is
not really helping you (that’s what you believe)….

You are dating a beautiful but a shy girl or one
that is not a talkie. You have already talked
about your hobbies, your families and your jobs
and nothing else come into your mind and she is
not really helping you (that’s what you believe).

One of the best ways of having a good, healthy
and wholesome chat with your girlfriend is to
start with small talk. The small talk will give
you a general picture about her likes and
dislikes, as well as what she would like to
discuss and what she would rather leave alone.
Once the small talk gives you a general idea, you
can go ahead and discuss your common likes and
dislikes.

But what is really freaking you are those moment
of silence. Uhh… horrible moments. The key
to avoid or get over these horrible moments are:

1. Compliment her

The fact is most people are shy about meeting new
people. I used to be enormously shy. But when you
think about it, shyness is merely a fear that
others won’t like you, or that you may be
rejected in some way. It’s natural for us to
desire acceptance. So try to make her know that
you like her by making a compliment. But find
something that you really find attractive about
her, about her lifestyle or her personality.  She
will become more confident and more open to share
her believes and her shyness won’t be a problem
for a fluid conversation.

2. Asking open questions

How you ask questions is very important in
establishing a basis for an effective
communication. Effective questions open the door
to knowledge and understanding. The art of
questioning lies in knowing which questions to
ask when.

My favorites questions are “why” and “how”
questions. You can use these frequently without
being annoying. She will feel that you are
interested in what she is telling you and will
develop her answers.

Therefore, you should think carefully before
speaking and taking up subjects that might be
repugnant to her.

3. Listen, listen, and listen.

Usually when the woman starts talking about her
favorite subjects (feelings, family,
relationships, friends and her work) many men
lose interest or bring the conversation back to
themselves. This is one of the biggest mistake
men are doing all the time.

They also like to exchange jokes and anecdotes
and spend a fair amount of time playing one-up
and boasting. Stop doing that!!!

Allow HER to have HER points of view, while you
have yours. Men have felt like they have either
had to abandon their own beliefs in order to try
to get a woman, OR they had to fight with women
about what they believe in. Both approaches lead
to failure.

She is not there with you just to hear about your
hero “qualities”, but to have a great time!

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What Makes A Woman Attractive
Men react to the satisfying physical appearance that meets their eyes when they refer to what makes a woman attractive. Moreover, more specific the assessment is made in the buttocks and or breast area first.  

Nevertheless, there is no need to believe me, rather do the probe yourselves. If your butt is an asset to your physical compilation, show it off in a pair of cosy fitting jeans or a compliment your bust line with a top to accentuate your curves. There is no need to reveal your best physical features too much. The idea is to let your body as a whole do the talking with good posture and a hint of diplomatic seduction. While he has set his focus on you, make sure to keep the focus where you want it – on you!

When men actually do get past the butt and boob watching. Then they move the focus on to the other fascination they have – lips. Men find it very hard to resist staring at an attractive woman’s lips. What makes lips sexy for men? You are wrong if you thought it is that rouge fatal you are wearing! Men love a natural plump look with a subtle hint of gloss. In fact, men hate lipstick. In order for you to send the message of “kissable lips”, you need to make sure your lips are moist, soft and smooth with very little lipstick if any. 

Although it may sound unbelievable, men actually do see women as more than suppose to be good-looking objects. They actually find a woman with personality attractive. However, once you passed the look test and he shows interest in sitting next to you, you keep him there.  

Present the true you to him from the first moment. Make it interesting yet comfortable for him to get to know you better. Do not bore him with a fake impersonation of someone neither of you know. 

And now for the grand finale – men’s idea of an attractive woman is one with a good dose of healthy intelligence that can think on her feet. Those “sweet dumb dolls” happen to have only one real good purpose in the eyes of men, mostly for one night only. They need a woman who will impress the folks to the extend and have the ability to be a great mother to his children.  

Learn more about this topic here: What Makes Woman Attractive

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Did you search for “how to seduce women”?

Do you really need a lot of help to get a girlfriend?

Do you feel like you cannot get girls?

I’m glad to say you’ve come to the right place!

This article is dedicated to teaching you how to seduce women. So, pay attention because you are really going to learn alot from this small post and it may change your life!

I know this sounds a bit weird, but the key to seduction is that you need to seduce the female mind before you go for her legs. What you need to do in order to attract and seduce women is make her feel that she is comfortable and has rapport with you.

If you are able to smoothly perform these tasks, then your woman will just want you to seduce her! I know this may sound really weird and strange, but please keep reading so I can explain what I am talking about here.

The fact is guys often miss the important bit, and neglect to woo the female mind – they forget this basic element. But not with logic! You need to be the guy who can make her feel a bunch of different feelings that other guys can’t create.

The reason why the jerks know how to seduce women is because they understand that they need to take women on an emotional roller coaster ride in order to seduce them. That is how you seduce women. Having and understanding of knowing how to elicit the feelings you want from girls that you encounter.

I repeat, in seduction of women is all in her mind. You know you have seduced her when she’s calling you all the time, telling you that she’s been thinking about you and wanting to be with you all the time. All that’s left for you is the easy part!

If you want to find out more about how to seduce women, then I suggest you check out my article here: How To Seduce A Woman

Also, sign up to the 6 part seduction mini course, you won’t regret it!

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Power Social Skils Review

Are you the type of guy to be shy?

Are you suffering from the inability to talk to women?

Do you lack the basic social skills that people take for granted?

Well I have good news for you because Carlos Xuma has released a new product called Power Social Skills and I was lucky enough to have a review of it.

I really like the fact that Carlos Xuma keeps on giving us things that improves our life in general and not just our seduction skills. Power Social Skills teaches you how to deal with any social situation that you didn’t know how to before. After listening to the course you’re going to be able to be more of a people person as you’re going to have a great skillset to deal with anything that may arise.

In the comprehensive audio program that has over 15 CDs worth of quality content, you learn:

1. The different types of behaviors that people have.
2. How to play to win social games or other influences.
3. how psychology will affect you and how to avoid being taken for a ride.
4. what to do when you feel as if you may be emotionally abused.
5. What manipulative people are and how to deal with them.
6. How mind control works and how to use it for yourself.
7. how to properly handle bad personality types such as emotional vampires!
8. What emotional backmail is and how to deal with it.
9. the social games that people play on you and you learn much more that I can’t be bothered to list!

The course really stood out because of it’s high quality and comprehensive information. It was so good it managed to cover all social situations that you might find yourself in and other areas not relating to dating.

The cool thing is that Carlos Xuma not only tells us to become a better person he keeps producing high quality products that help us to do so.

I know you’re interested in the product now, and I have done a full review of Power Social Skills and I recommend you look at it to see if it’s what you think it is.

You should really give this a go, because do you have anything more to lose?

Check out my review here: Review of Powr Social Skills

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For the guys out there thinking about purchasing this ebook, How To Become An Alpha Male, I have done a quick review of it.

First of all, why is it important to be an alpha male and why does everyone in the seduction scene seem to be always talking about it?

In the kingdom and world of animals, the ones who get to breed are the alpha males. Basically, alpha males get the girls, so you want to be one too!

What does it take to be the alpha male? There is a new ebook in the dating market titled “How To Become An Alpha Male” authored by John Alexander. You will be able to get the women that you want after reading the ebook and learning about the personality traits that women find attractive!

Here’s a quick look inside of the contents of the book, these are just the bits that I found interesting enough to point out:

• how to adjust your body language
• how to groom yourself so you are presentable
• how to ask questions in a seductive manner
• how to stop turning women off
• how to not kill a bar conversation
• how to be the alpha guy in any situation
• how to be an alpha male on the phone

I know a lot of these things sound silly and basic. But you have to be honest with yourself, if you were able to get the women that you wanted, would you be on a dating site like this?

I don’t think so!

That’s another reason why you need to check out the book and just keep an open mind about the situation. If you are interested to learn more about John Alexander’s book, I have a full review of it here: How To Become An Alpha Male Review

Don’t forget to sign up to my 6 part seduction mini course whilst you’re at the site! I guarantee you’ll learn a lot from it

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